happy new year

Wishing you all a belated happy new year !!!!!!

I should be back online more often very soon to talk with you again.


Lassie xx



Depression is a very difficult illness to cope with.

In too many instances, people try to hide their feelings from even their closest friends and family.  And far too often, they succeed in hiding this.

It is too easy to act the part of the life and soul of the party, make everyone believe that you are fine, and pretend to the world that nothing is stressing you at all.

But, hiding those feelings often doesn’t help the person.  Opening up to someone about these feelings can help in more ways than can be imagined.

It is sometimes hard to open up though.  Thinking that you will upset other people, that you will just be a problem for them, that your sadness is only for you to deal with by yourself, these are all common reasons for holding back and letting these feelings fester inside you.

When you are young and feeling depressed, it can be even harder.  Sometimes, you don’t understand yourself why you are sad.  You have a full life, friends, family, but you cannot lift that low mood inside you, which slowly eats away at you, making you feel useless, lonely, unwanted, unloved, a waste of time and space.

Too often, these feelings lead a person into that dark road that leads to suicide.

When you get to that point, it is often too late to ask for help, to tell someone how you feel.  You feel like you are doing other people a favour, that they will be better off without you around.  In most cases, this is totally untrue.

If one person out there in the blog world reads this and realises that they are depressed, or that they need help, then I have done a little bit for the world.

Death is difficult for anyone.

To cope with someone taking their own life, is far harder to everyone that is left behind.

Please be a shoulder to those around you, listen to them and offer to help.  Sometimes just the offer can make someone open up.

Above all, remember that life is precious.  No matter how down you feel, you matter to someone, somewhere.

Don’t give up, there is always a better day around the corner xxxx

longest reign

Two years ago, in 2015, our current Queen, Elizabeth II, overtook her great-great-grandmother in terms of the length of her reign.

When Queen Victoria died in 1901, she had reigned for 63 years, 216 days.

Queen Elizabeth’s reign currently stands at 65 years, 217 days.

Rumours abound about how much longer she may wear the crown of the United Kingdom and the Commonwealth.

At the age of 91, it can possibly be understood why these questions might be asked.

Her mother lived to the ripe old age of 101, why should we not think that Elizabeth may survive for another decade, or more?

The most recent rumour that I have read, is that a regency will be set up once she reaches 95, and Charles will take control without the title of King.  Though by that time, the Prince of Wales will be well into his 70’s too, will his abilities be much better??

Many ask if Charles should even still be heir to the throne.  How can a divorced manbe the head of the church?  Besides the fact that he married a divorced woman, the fact which caused the abdication of his great-uncle Edward VIII, less than a decade ago.

Our country has changed dramatically since the abdication crisis, though has the monarchy changed as much?  It is a dated institution, but that is part of the allure.  England has had a monarch for centuries, the longest continual monarchy in world history, should it really change to such an extent to allow Charles’ accession?

Personally I do not have a problem with him becoming regent or King, though I do object to Camilla becoming Queen.  In previous posts I have compared her to Anne Boleyn, the Mistress who married a King and became Queen.  Diana was beloved of the country and many still find it difficult to think of her husband’s mistress wearing the crown that should have been Diana’s.  In my comparison that would make Diana into Catherine of Aragon, I suppose.  She died at the neglect of her husband, Diana is said to have died because her HRH and police protection had been removed, there is some similarity then.

Then there is the train of thought that Charles should be overtaken in the succession by his son and wife.

There was a very interesting drama on BBC recently called Charles III, it looked at a time when Charles took the throne, then was forced to abdicate in favour if William and Kate.  A good watch if you can find it online somewhere.

William would make a popular King, I am sure, but is he ready?  He has started a young family with Catherine in the last few years and another baby is due soon, I read the other day.

(I wish her well with her hyperemesis, I suffered it with all of my pregnancies and know the pain and stress that it causes.)

I think William should be allowed the time with his young family that the Queen did not have.  Her children had to be brought up almost solely by nannies and in boarding schools, how about we let the Cambridge children have a little nearer to normal upbringing?

There are a fine number of heirs to the throne at present, with Charles, WIlliam, George, Charlotte and the new baby on the way.  I doubt that any of them will acceed to the throne at an age to exceed our current Queen’s record for her reign.

At any rate, when she does go, there will be many people who question the future of the monarchy in general.  Queen Elizabeth has been the Queen for most of the population’s lifetimes, she is like everyone’s favourite grandma, and it is difficult to imagine anyone taking her place.

It will be interesting though, to see who actually does win the throne after her, on the strength of popularity, or respect?


The 1st September 1939 marked the beginning of World War 2.

When dawn broke, German troops, who had been waiting at the border, began an invasion of Poland.  They also began bombing the Polish city of Warsaw at 6am.

The German forces easily outnumbered the Polish ones, and in a little over a fortnight, Poland was forced to capitulate to their invaders.

Two days after Germany had invaded, The British and French Empires, declared war on the Germans, in defence of their ally, Poland.

Considering that they went to war to defend Poland, neither Britain nor France did anything to effectively save the country from Germany’s clutches.

During the first 6 months of the war, over the winter, not much fighting actually happened.  The Germans made the first attack on the enemy in October 1939, when a submarine snook into Scapa Flow, where the British Navy had a base, and the sub managed to sink one of the Navy’s most important ships, the Royal Oak.

The British Navy retaliated in December 1939 by sinking the battleship Graf Spee in the Atlantic.

And so began one of the biggest losses of life in World history…….


Today marks the anniversary of the death of Lord Louis Mountbatten, second cousin of our Queen, and mentor to Prince Phillip who took his surname.

His death is remembered because of the way he died.

On a visit to his home in Ireland in 1979, he took his small fishing boat to sea, with seven people on board.  Just a matter of yards from the shore, a bomb that had been hidden on the boat the previous night, exploded.

A local boy, Paul Maxwell, who was on board to help that day died instantly, as did one of Mountbatten’s grandsons, Nicholas.  The twin brother of Nicholas, and his parents were seriously injured but survived.  Lady Brabourne, the mother in law of Mountabtten’s daughter was taken to hispital but died the following day as a reult of her injuries.

Mountbatten himself, was rescued by some local fisherman.  He was pulled onto their boat barely alive, his legs hanging by a thread, and he died before the boat reached the shore.

His funeral took place at Westminster Abbey a week later, attended by the Royal Family and televised for thousands of others to watch.  His body was interred in Romsey Abbey.

The IRA took responsibility for the killing, claiming that he knew what to expect when coming to a war zone.

Mountbatten had led an illustrious career in his younger days.  He was the last Viceroy of India, then became the first Governor General of India when it became independant in 1947.

He was raised to First Sea Lord, soon after his return to Britain.

He played an important part in the meeting and marriage of Prince Phillip and Princess Elizabeth.  He took Phillip under his wing and coached him in British etiquette.  Phillip took the Mountbatten surname, to make himself appear English enough to marry the future Queen.

He also took a lead in coaching Prince Charles for his future role, advising him to enjoy his bachelor days, then marry a young virgin.  We all know where that led……..

Prince Charles was said to be devastated by the loss of his favourite uncle, and read a psalm at his funeral.

My view on this?  I don’t understand why people blow other people up.  In times of war, it seems different, but not many people outside of Ireland thought of the ‘troubles’ as being a war zone.  This assassination brought more people to take notice of the troubles, but I still don’t understand why people think it will get sympathy for their cause to blow up innocent people.  Anyone explain it to me????

Monster !!

Usually as a Ricardian, I would be talking of the Battle of Bosworth today, but my post from last year was quite well recieved, and am not sure I could top that !!

So instead, I thought I might find another topic to write about.

It is legend that the 22nd August in the year 565 (I know the calendar has changed since then but this is a legend after all!!), that St Columba was passing by the side of Loch Ness near Inverness, on his way to preach the Christian message to the Isles of Scotland.

It is said that he saw a monster swimming in the deep waters of the loch.  He became the first person to report a sighting of the now famous Loch Ness Monster!

The legend goes that he saw a monster attack and kill a local man, then try to attack one of Columba’s own missionaries.  The saint is said to have banished the monster to the depths of Loch Ness, never to walk on land again.

Of course we have no evidence that he did this, but the area around the loch has grown a massive tourist industry on the basis of this monster!  There have even been serious scientific investigations done on the loch to see if a monster can be found!!

Let’s all do the monster mash to celebrate……….

Bruce Forsyth

I had this piece for writing tonight all planned, but then I came home from shopping to hear that Bruce Forsyth had died.

I never claimed to be a big fan of his, but memories of watching him on saturday night tv, fill my mind.

I still watch Play Your Cards Right on Challenge, it’s classic mindless tv for when you need to chill out and switch off.

Then there was The Generation Game, no-one told jokes about the cuddly toy on the conveyor belt like he did!

More recently we enjoyed him on Strictly, which I admit is a secret vice of mine.

He was not a relative or friend, but I, among many other people will miss him.  His boundless energy and willingness to laugh at himself, is not found in modern tv hosts.  A true legend of British tv.

He lived to a ripe old age of 89, and must have seen much over those years.  I hope he finds his peace to rest in.

Didn’t he do well!!!!